In this era, where extraversion is lauded and self-absorption seems to be the key to all things, the Alpha Male is seen as the ultimate catch. Well, okay, but what happens when you actually get him? The self-assuredness that was first found attractive turns out to be arrogance. Beta Males are a different type entirely, and make much better companions for myriad reasons. Alpha men tend to place their own wants and preferences as top priority, and put little if any effort into pleasing their partner. Your Beta male partner will take the time to find out what pleases you, and actually wants to make sure you enjoy yourself as much as he does. Communication Is Important To Him Instead of rolling his eyes or finding something more important to take care of when you need to talk to him about something, your Beta guy will take the time to listen to you and work with you to resolve issues that may arise.
If you are naturally proactive and like to make things happen, then you will do great with beta-men.
Do not confuse it with being submissive though. He does have his own opinions. He wants to go with the flow and he wants you to be happy. Whatever you say or do will be welcomed.
You are the CEO and he is a supervisor, remember? We need to feel like the man we are with can provide and protect.
With beta-males, where we feel like we need to take charge most of the time, we feel like we are the ones who have to protect. We feel like these insecure and feminine beta-males are our beta-boys.
I mean, it is like they are our children who need to be taken care of and supervised. Dealing with such men wakes up our motherly instinct which, quite often is on an unconscious level, makes us behave as if we were their mother. We tell them what to do, we supervise and remind; we become their caring mom and they — our little helpless pajama boy.
Oct 6, 1. Is anyone else married to a gentle and passive beta but absolutely craving an alpha male? Not like a brute beast misogynist but a strong man.
12 Signs You’re Dating A Beta Male (And Why That’s A Good Thing)
A man to pick me up and make me feel small. A man for passionate and dominant sex. Divine masculinity to take charge. I understand that in order to attain marriage or a relationship women have to settle. I love my spouse and he is a good person. I've just been craving that alpha Male. Sexually I was with alpha males in my ho phase Lately I am just lusting over handsome men that fit my desired description.
Married/dating beta Male yet craving Alpha Male?
I know men are mostly trash and the sex is usually a hit or miss. I just wanted to vent. Oct 6, 2. Thanks x 48 LOL! Oct 6, 3.
Thanks x 42 LOL! Oct 6, 4. Oct 6, 5. Oct 6, 6. I noticed when you treat a man like he's an alpha man Thing is, women are only inspired to behave that way once the guy already exhibits those behaviors so it's a Catch Thanks x Skeptical x 6 Disagree!
Dating for beta males
Oct 6, 7. Oct 6, 8. Oct 6, 9. Dating men is a lot like choosing a product. Are you the type of woman who likes a strong male presence whose lead you can follow or are you the type who likes taking the lead? So who should you go after, the alpha or beta male?15 Signs You Are A Beta-Male
The following may answer the question for you. Alpha males have the strong instinct to provide and protect, hence a woman dating one will be at the receiving end of a sense of safety and security. They like showering their women with material gifts and luxuries— they love to sweep you off your feet. Physical strength and prowess are topnotch priorities for alpha males, hence they make it an effort to look good and keep themselves fit.
They tend to hold high positions at work or be the boss themselves, drive fancy cars, and generally live the good life.