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Online dating red pill any more

Tinder = inadequate for women, unfair for men

A message has arrived from a man in south Wales. Do you believe in love at first sight? Last week, I had daily on-screen dating site conversations with a man called Alexander. We met first on Sunday. All we had to go on were photographs and the usual clues: It was a connection built entirely through typing.

Then I realized my ex comes off as a total good girl Those beta orbiters she'll always have are clueless, much I like was when we first met. I had an ex who appeared like the good girl stereotype. Of course, she changed when it came to social settings For some reason most of my memories of her revolve around her begging for anal; not even bull shitting.

After always seeing that anal trope about how women only do it very rarely under certain circumstances I couldn't help but laugh when my ex would continuously beg for it. That is one that legitimately falls into the "creepy" zone for some.

Personally, I don't like it. But to each their own, whatever gets you off and gets them off as well. Just relating my experiences. It's not really about being called daddy, it's the act of showing dominance for her to submit to you.

You could have her call you "boo boo kitty fuck" and she'll do it if she's attracted to you. This was a good refresher. I use online dating time to time because it's just so convenient. I can game women while holding my cell and taking a shit.

Anyway, I've been out of the country for two weeks on business and noticed I was slipping into beta bitch with these foreign chicks while using tinder, okc, etc. This post was the slap-in-the-face I needed. Remember that you have an advantage - you're leaving in two weeks.

Take the gloves off and fight, since you'll be a ghost in short order. I really like the way you talk. You have a way with words. Accept this as a compliment and encouragement to write more. Having this attitude is great, but the reason girls respond so well to it is because it naturally comes from high testosterone. If you dont have high test, when you meet them they're immediately going to realise you're all talk.

You just won't have the raw sexual magnetism of a natural, for all your holding a sexual frame, arrogance, attempts at social dominance and IDGAF attitude. Oh yeah lifting is great. But it doesn't raise test significantly. Blast and cruise, baby, blast and cruise. If you use too much incorrectly. Don't fear monger on steroids. Used correctly they are actually very safe.

It just comes off as weak to me. You need a shortcut because of lack of willpower? With a high-fat diet and lifting heavy nearly any man can achieve high test especially when excess body fat burns off. Show me a study showing the average guy's T levels "plummet" in the 30s. Can you have high-T in your 30's if you lift heavy most days of the week? For many its even worse than that.

Still no big deal? Theres more important things impacting T levels than lifting heavy. Unless you are in your early 20's I dont care what you do, I bet my T levels smoke yours.

I have the test numbers to prove it. B The average man in his 30s doesn't lift weights, eats processed food, doesn't sleep enough, and doesn't meditate. I would expect a similar study amongst weight-lifting individuals to have an even smaller drop.

That's nothing, and that's just one factor involved with testosterone production. I hate excuses if you couldn't tell. While true studies have proven test levels in men have been dropping every generation by a lot.

Some may want to return to what was considered normal levels. That's true, and due mostly to the fact that there are so many xenoestrogens in the environment. These are easy to avoid for the most part. Don't drink bottled plastic drinks. Don't store food in plastic. Don't buy processed food.

Online Dating - MGTOW

Rather than take the quick approach, I think it's more respectable to educate yourself and get high-test the natural way. Nothing wrong with infertility if you arent starting a family. And there are tests for cancer.

Don't get me wrong, it'll work because females are retarded and obey little other than tingles, but I personally would rather not die of a heart attack at There are better ways to get pussy.

Every time I see some hypervascular steroid freak walking down the street I just think "dead man walking.

When you look at all the steroid users who were jacked and raking in pussy in their 20's and 30's, by the time they are in their 40s they are forced on TRT because their balls cant make natural testosterone and by the time they are in their 50's and 60's they are getting weird cancers and joint replacements and other health issues.

Sure, some people are able to do testosterone moderately and get off mostly scott free, but its a risk, one that I'm not willing to take.

Have you ever heard of the turtle vs the hare? The turtle wins in the end. Here's the thing bro. Hypervascular steroid freaks are not the only ones taking roids, they're just the ones doing it badly. Juice has come a long way:. If you say so. Even if you are are taking roids perfectly you are still playing dangerous games with your organ health, especially your heart.

You might not die at 25 like the Zyzz, but you're probably decreasing your lifespan and future quality of life. Obviously, your mileage may vary - genetics is a magical thing, and it's possible that you might suffer no ill effects at all.

That's not a trade I'm prepared to make for pussy, given how easy it is to get it without resorting to risking my future vitality for it. Note that I'm not being moralistic about this. I'm natty, but I probably could have made the same lifting progress in 6 months that I made in 2 or 3 years if I had used gear instead; in fact, I probably would have done it if the health risks weren't there.

However, the health risks are there and it's disingenuous of you to pretend they aren't. Just because some people can do testosterone or steroids without long term ill effects doesnt mean everyone can. There are people who smoked for 60 years and live to That doesnt mean its safe. Its a risk, and there are some serious consequences for those who arent lucky. Nope, I get what you're trying to say, but you know nothing about steroids at all.

Testosterone is as safe as weed. It's only when you take the highly liver toxic stuff and combine them with other drugs do you run into issues. Zyzz died because of cocaine and DNP abuse.

Frank Zane is old, still ripped, and healthy, and he used way more steroid. No, you're the idiot. The fact that you're taking single examples and acting like it's proof positive that you're not going to die young because of your steroid abuse is dumb. All the Frank Zane example proves is that Frank Zane got lucky and had genetics that could survive his dipshit behavior.

A lot of rockstars do enough cocaine to kill a mule at every show and manage to live a long time after that - do you think that's good evidence that doing shitloads of coke is a good decision? Regardless, you're on gear so that says pretty much all I need to know about your future time orientation.

I'm not on gear now. I've been off for a few months now. I still look great and dick never stopped working. Blood tests came back perfectly healthy. You do realize that you can be an underwear model pretty boy and live as long as if you didn't take anything if you just stick to low doses and mild compounds, right?

Or you could be a badass without drugs. You only have to remember to start by being less mentally weak. I started gear and have had x the normal testosterone levels of other men since 20 years old. High test does not have as much of an effect as you'd believe.

I see you're on gear too from your comments, do you really get that much mental confidence and change in attitude? I'm currently on test, eq, deca, low dose tren, anavar for my aas. I inject ghrp-6 three times a day and ghrp-2 before bedtime, mod grf with all four of those injections. Then MGF injections twice a week. Everything I've added has been done gradually and one by one so I can observe and understand how each compound affects me.

As an additional note, I personally do not advise anyone taking the dark road unless they have plans to compete in bodybuilding or competitive sports. I compete in both. Getting jacked does not get you laid what so ever, unless you wanna fuck a bunch of black chicks.

Blacks and Latinos are more attracted to jacked guys where as white girls are more attracted to lean jogger types. This is a generalization so there's obviously plenty of white girls that want jacked, and vice versa.

Great strength and size gains. Absolutely no mental effects for me unfortunately.. Was more interested in that then the gains. Could you possibly post some of the chatlogs you have? Of course, block out any names and pictures so as to not reveal identities. He's writing from the idealized perspective of Chad Thundercock, the ideal alpha, probably not from any personal experience. So this whole thread is just fantasy?

This is pointless without hard evidence. I thought trp was all about reality, not what you would like reality to be. The truth is girls will routinely ignore the wittiest low SMV men, but respond much more positively to high SMV even if it is something as silly as a picture of their abs. If you look like someone who has worked on their body, you will have fun with online dating. If you look portly, you're very witty message isn't even going to get a glance.

Look like you put in some work at the gym, and watch how the quality of your messages no longer matter. That's not saying that they won't.

Your message is still in a sea of other messages that women get. But, it does give you that edge.

Are you going to have your own opinion, or flip-flop when I disagree with you? Grab your balls and tell me to fuck off. You did make a point that I didn't mention in my original reply. But now you can fuck off. I used to be that guy. One of the best posts I've seen on here. I read over this article yesterday and thoroughly enjoyed the message. I then thought to myself, "what the hell why not, let's give it a shot" and messaged a handful of attractive girls in my area with one of the following messages:.

I laughed it off at first, but my god, the responses I received from those crude, blunt messages was significantly higher than I'd originally imagined. You now have a superpower most mortals only dream of. Keep it up - I want to see your field reports next. Yeah just good luck doing this if you aren't attractive, and for those of you who won't be attractive even after years of hard lifting, don't even try this.

This is goddamn beautiful. There was a post a long time ago about flipping the script on feminist bullshit for some great Red Pill truths, and it was a lot like this particular line.

I still remember reading "A man needs a woman like a fish needs a bicycle," and thinking of all the shit my friends put up with, how much respect we lose for men we call "pussy whipped" and how much we respected, in contrast, the "assholes" who could get pussy without putting up with shit.

Ever since I have been single the past year Tinder has been a godsend. I have better luck than all of my friends due to the strength of my profile. I have been working on my SMV very hard the past few years. I am an engineer, male model, and have done fitness competitions.

Makes online dating a piece of cake. I wonder if we could get a detailed look at his yearly budget and where his discretionary spending habits. I, for one, I am in awe. His slightly middle class income and the purchase of a used car is something that would surely get the ladies wet.

Tips for some some of you noobs: For quantity, go with the abs. For the quality, go with the suit.

Also, your pics are already a visual stimulate, use your bio to stimulate their mind for the ko. Either way learn not to give a fuck. All about location and what you represent. Their are tons of high end girls who keep this down low, but they won't deviate beyond their social sphere or economic status, so always make sure you look the part of what you want to attract: I took a bored selfie at work while fully suited with the most smug duschebag smirk I could pull.

The office setting affirmed the legitimacy of my status. Posted that shit on tinder and by the end of the workday I'm meeting up with another downtown office girl for happy hour.

I don't waste my time with trash, too easy and too boring. Way more enjoyable to work some fine game and fuck a corporate tight-ass while she still has her heels on. Don't waste your time with trash, on or off tinder. They don't deserve you and you devalue yourself by dumpster diving.

I have used armodafinil for 3 years. At this point I've slowed down, but the days I don't take it I feel lethargic all day. Is armodafinil the one you can get without subscription? I'm thinking to ask my doctor for provigil brand name for Modafinil for college focus and the times I'll be working overtime.

You're recommending people on TRP to 'upgrade to modafinil' when you yourself have never even used it? You're basing your opinions off two blogger nobodies?

Find better role models. I'd also recommend doing some research on nootropics as well, because modafinil isn't even related to a single nootropic he mentioned. There is nothing to 'upgrade' from. You can get anything online without a prescription if you look hard enough. Armodafinil isn't scheduled in my country and I have it shipped legally for cheap.

Highly doubt your doctor would give you modafinil 'just cuz'. You'd likely need to be narcoleptic. But I don't know anything about your doctor. You really think they're somebodies? A washed up lawyer and wannabe face of MRA who sounds like a chick, fakes a megalomaniac character, juice head and click bait author?

I was once like you too. Thinking these men were authorities, hopping on the latest trends in supplements, coming to TRP for all my decision making. You must realize this forum is all people just like you who are giving advice on things they haven't even tried themselves.

Yes I agree but can you end up putting too much into it and end up seeming like an arrogant over confident douche or is that the point? It's waaay too macho and trying too hard for any real guy looking for a decent chick that isn't a complete psycho or cum dumpster. However, you're absolutely on the right track but a bit over the top in the Michael Bay kinda way, sure guys will say fuck ya that's awesome but women will say this so stupid, keep watching but won't ever think about you again.

Holy fuck I read your post again OP and sure it's entertaining but god damn son you don't have a fucking clue. These sites are made for finding cum dumpsters.

Can confirm it works. I take them every day, and then when I really want to fly like the guy in limitless, I add phenibut. Be careful with Phenibut - not more than 2x a week.

Increased focus and determination are the magic effects. When adding Phenibut, you add the "totally don't give a shit" attitude so many people crave. Not enough to make me a fiend, but I notice the difference - sort of like going cold turkey on caffeine.

Stop pushing Phenibut on here, its becoming a trend. I cringe whenever I see it from what I've been through. College kids are easily influenced and Phenibut is dangerous. Ive seen you personally advocate taking Phenibut when "going out" and that is the most dangerous time. Do not mix with alcohol. If you can't manage your risks, then it's your own fault and you deserve to be weeded out of the gene pool.

Yes we should openly promote the use of harmful drugs and social crutches on here, then tell those warning others of their harmful behavior that they deserve to die. I was reading a thread on phenibut on asktrp where someone was asking how something that's not a drug can be so effective. This is a place to share wisdom. Hey Remy, recent TRPer looking to go monk mode for the summer. Is it worth investing in these supplements? Where would I start?

They seem to be worth taking but I'm not sure what to even take or where to begin with something like this. Any info or insight would be much appreciated. If you are a brokecollegekidd, skip the Phosphatidyl-Serine it's the most expensive. Get the rest from Beyond A Century google it , buy them in powder form and then buy a pill capper to make your own pills.

This is the most economical way. I haven't experienced any noticeable side effects; but, I have a relatively strong tolerance for negative effects from my continual experiments. I might just be overlooking them. Phenibut is the only one I really worry about.

My first wife did PhD-level research on the rest, and though she's an ex, I trust her scientific opinion.

IMO, it's not winners or losers. It's untamed or tamed. Girls get turned off by tamed dudes. I was at an event tonight, hitting on a girl who is dating a "safe" guy. He was standing right there while I gamed her. You could see the difference in reactions when I was speaking to her, versus her date speaking to her. Go to the local fabric store and get a bunch of "tieback cord" or " twist cord " - not only will you have it tonight, every girl in the store that is, everyone there will be wondering what you'll be doing with it.

Smile knowingly - or get their numbers. Be sure you get paraffin candles rather than beeswax, so the hot wax will sting rather than really burn. Casually point out the difference if she seems nervous about it - she'll wonder how you know, even if you're faking it. Stop using the same lines. Learn to think for yourself. Are you always hyper aggressive? You seem to instantly check people. I get the IDGAF vibe as beneficial, but at the same time you seem to make character assumptions from very little engagement.

Do you think you have everyone figured out within a post or two? Full disclosure, I'm new to TRP and there are a variety of personalities here. I'm still in an angry phase, but I'm not sure if I want to be a confrontational know it all constantly, even if it works best. If I've got it wrong tell me. They don't even acknowledge you said something stupid, they will just fire you on the spot. Consider that when you have six to ten plates, you don't have time to deal with One Special Snowflake's shit tests.

You just cut her out and move on without so much as a grunt in her direction. I'm not saying you're wrong. I'm not sure that is who I aspire to be. I don't think I'd enjoy being that person. It seems somewhat pervasive here. I'm not saying I'm looking to be a moral fag, a white knight, or a pussy. But I'm less abrasive. Perhaps its our differences in social roles. I'm usually alone at work doing chemistry. I don't talk to people for days sometimes. So when I do, I guess I try to reserve judgement some.

But if this is a symptom of being a super busy type A, so be it. Don't take it as an insult. I'm curious why you treat people the way you do game aside - I get why you spit game like you do. I'm trying to learn some of that. I've had women wrong forever.

This was by someone who didn't know when to stop talking, because they were so inside their head they just wanted to talk and talk, and could not take social cues. And, I was on a tight schedule since I was leading the training, during one of the short minute breaks in our 45 hours of training. He simply couldn't just deal with the reality that I can't spend the entire break listening to his pedantic story.

I looked him straight in the eye, and said "Good. Now you know what everyone is thinking when you talk AT them. I'm just the first one to walk away. I work with - people every week as a trainer in large groups. I am kind and patient, and I still don't allow them to feed their own story.

I call them out on the spot simply because if I don't, I will spend hours dealing with their story instead of dealing with reality. They've seen it done on TV cop shows so clearly they're an expert, and yet despite your protests they still demand it with a ridiculous turn-around time.

Would you say "You're right, I'll have it back to you in a few hours", or would you simply say "You're not a scientist, so you have no idea what you're talking about.

I need to read more of this. I used to online dating for 2 years, I deleted all my profiles once I found out about redpill - couse fuck it, Im not going to be the guy who is messeging girls all over the place and give them that feeling of being desired without giving anything in return. How do you naturally become alpha in talk and actions? I keep going back to my beta thinking every now and then, gets me frustrated. Anything else is a waste of time, and if they don't want to come out and play I swift-sword them out of my life.

Is that only in case of Girls or overall tho? I feel if I think only about myself Ill become the last person anyone wants to hang out with. I dont want to be anti social. You can be a kind person and still be Chad. I dislike this sort of behavior, sure you will get a couple of sluts, but its much better to at least try to not trigger ALD, but still be Chad.

My aim on Tinder is to put in the least amount of effort possible and still get laid. Right now its "the baddest man alive. Took me about 2 seconds to think up and type. Look through my post history as well as karma if you want to see intellectual muscles you pompous dork.

Only in TRP do I see people argue with each other, and then go back to loving each other like brothers. I don't have a cell phone. Any way to use these on a Mac? I hate Tinder's swiping BS, takes too much time But here are the apps you can try. I use Android, it's ridiculous for me since my pickup line is, hey you got viber or skype, gimme the number, I get the number on first reply. The concept of alpha vs beta is that the alphas and the winners are always the guys who are extremely masculine, to a fault.

Now I don't think it means that or even should be that way. But what type of diseased braindead desperate whores does this net?

I mean have you ever had these type of woman takes YOU out to eat, or is it always you being a simp paying for them? Have you ever been able to use this to net a female who can say anything intelligent at all? Desperation makes for some extreme serial killer stalkers. I don't get it, is this a made up story? TRP isn't really the place for you to practice your erotic fiction writing.

Bro, there is a lot of fan fiction going on on TRP lately, and I am not afraid to call bullshit. But this, this is legit. You can eat tacos, just need to do it right after you press some plates like a maniac.

My body doesn't allow for that anymore.

My first case of online dating revulsion

Did at one time. In high school I maintained an 8-pack and ate like shit. Now I eat clean almost every day and it's starting to look really nice down there.

I miss the old days of not having to worry, but the way I look at it, keeping track of my diet is just one more way to keep my self-discipline strong. Post-workout insulin spikes with high-GI junk food is the absolute best way to ramp up your metabolism for the next day, and promote healthy growth hormone release which will make you younger every day. One thing I have not considered until now is mixing one TWO?

I suddenly feel like my life is about to change. This sounds like some straight up bro-science here. How young are you? Junk is junk, post-workout or not. There is always a good percentage of butthurt on here by guys not getting laid. Good on you man and keep up the writing. By accident applies to this as well. You are born with the vast majority of your personality. Very little is learned. Genetics are extremely important in shaping personality and behavior.

Online dating red pill

All of those downvotes on your comment make me wonder how "redpilled" this place really is. Has no one heard of twin studies? Yeah, I've been wondering about the downvotes when nothing I wrote should have been particularly controversial.

The fact that you're born with personality traits is easy to see among young children who can have very different personalities even when growing up in the same environment. If you want to have sex with the horseshit quality that hangs out on POF, it's doubtful you value yourself very highly.

Doubtful the shirtless mirror pics get many girls wet, except maybe the totally vapid, STD-ridden, tatted up nightmares. Let's all wait for the one to dedicate ourselves to. Banging POF whores and waiting for "the one" are not exactly the only 2 choices here. OP didn't say he was looking for unicorns. If you are doubting that sending a pic of your body will excite a female, you need to work on your body more. Guess you haven't explored the various dating sites.

But this varies by region, in my region POF is utter crap. You NEED pics to show off your body if you're in shape , but the mirror with iphone shirtless is overdone and pretty cheesy.

Oddly enough, the first OKC date I ever went on was after I said "fuck it" and threw up one picture of my abs, to see what would happen. Didn't get that lay, was in way over my head disbelief that it was happening. Online dating forever changed. Asian girls are the easiest online if you're white, so that's not saying it was the abs.

Tall chicks don't get hit on as much IRL so they are more likely to do online dating. You've seen studies on this? Have you looked at mens profiles? Most guys have pics like this, are most guys successful online? Of course anything overdone doesn't work.

Actually that's a good analogy. Junk mail gets the attention of about. Yes you can throw up just about any picture and get that kind of attention on a dating site.

I suggest you check out mens' profiles, you will see that most are putting up the iphone in mirror pics No chance, most are floundering, the key to online dating is originality. Thanks, POF must be more regional than I thought, or nobody here is very discerning when it comes to women, as long as they are willing to have sex with them. POF in my down is really scraping the bottom of the barrel.

Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. Ignorance of the rules is not an excuse. Here's a Glossary of Shaming Tactics , try to be creative and avoid these. We know you won't, that's why you're easy to spot. Read the following threads and the Theory Reading below. Women, the most responsible teenager in the house.

Comprehensive Guide to Shit Tests. Goals - A beginners guide on how to attain them. How To Tease Bitches. How To Manage Your Bitches. Home Blogs - Forums. Chad Thundercock succeeds at online dating. Chad was not impressed with online dating. Looking through the profiles on Plenty of Sluts Fish, he saw the typical bullshit women spew out of their cake holes: Don't be a jerk.

No shirtless mirror selfies. Don't message me about sex! Do me a favor, and don't write back unless you're ready to call me daddy. Are you tied up tonight? The next morning, 10 women had responded. Most wrote back the typical bullshit: That's no way to write to a woman. I'm not interested only in sex She hesitated writing back for a few minutes. Then she wrote "We'll see We will definitely see, Cathy. That being said, my anger phase has begun. We are the cocks of fate. Wanted reference Permalink Reply.

So I typed "how about a lap dance ; " for him, and she never responded. Is there still an appeal. I'm assuming you're talking about Tinder Permalink Reply. I don't walk the middle of the road. They either love me or hate me right away. Her answer would be dude, how the hell should I know?

He really loves us. Please, don't leave your walk through unwritten. Is it similar to mine? Stop playing video games. Only get drunk with men you trust to have your back in a brawl. Nothing is as valuable or rare as a loyal friend is. As for scripture, it wasn't specified but branch out from the Bible. Many have good data.

Saved for later use, if you don't mind. But I'm catching onto it and it's awesome when I do and fix it Permalink Reply. I started getting a new message every day and a phenomenal response rate Permalink Reply. Apt analogy about Amazon. Thanks for the share, Cyralea. Girls are full of shit, let me tell you.

Nobody gets six pack abs to date just one girl. I ended up holding a hoe and my cat is scared of me now. In online dating, you gotta stir up upsetting some emotions to snag them first. Newbies, take note of this.

Tingles come in many forms. Just begin a conversation like you never said fuck you? Even at 31 it's still a considerable advantage anyway. Every slight edge counts. Thanks for the share. It says no sexual language Permalink Reply. What you lack in height, make up in personality in looks. Never forget that shit.

Thanks for the share, RichieFinn. They enjoy all of them. I know millionaires in Manhattan penthouse condos that don't. Be the type of man that attracts women in spite of your circumstances. We both know the type. To be fair, and realistic, I am a woman. By nature, You and I are different in many ways [Men and women are different, duh].

I will honor and respect those differences and can only ask that you do, too. In subsequent correspondence, the profile writer wrote that she had over total responses since posting the profile back in May of this year. Given the words in her profile, I am not surprised. Some will argue that her appearance is the only reason she gets so much online attention.

But given the excellent written content of the profile, I argue that the photos are only a part of the motivation for so many guys to respond to her. Some apparently decided they would meet me based on the photo and headline shown. This response rate in just one day clearly shows that men are starved for a woman who understands what they want. But instead, the message women receive is that they should make demands of men; insist that men cowtow to the feminine imperative. So few profiles written by women actually state what they offer a man.

It seems some sort of contemporary shibboleth for a woman to explicitly state what she offers a man that he actually desires in a woman. Send the message as soon as the profile is displayed and the woman looks appealing. The message should be short but customized for each profile. When women have jobs, they tend to cheat with their boss or some other co-worker.

I have no time for that nonsense. Also, I have 4 weeks of paid vacation per year and like to take off to the beach for weeks at a time.

She stated that she has adult children who do not live at home, and being in her 40s additional children are unlikely. You would want her to hang around an empty house all day waiting for you to come home? Anyone in that situation would inevitably find something — or someone — to occupy their time. My current mate and I have no children at home. She spends the day cooking, cleaning, feeding animals, working in the garden, running errands and reading. Picked up my current girl when she was 19 and I was Been together for 4 years now.

Is she judgmental or can she party? A woman who has her own money might earn it as a business out of her home. That would allow her possibly to afford a servant or two. Proverbs 31 and all that. Would not interested in a career woman who works for a man. Gamer works outside the home, but always for a woman. Not much contact with men. This is the only worrisome part. I have pride in myself and in my home. I keep my shit clean and put away. Once a week my wife and I divvy up chores and get the house sparkling in about an hour, and we have a maintenance list to knock off every day.

This is not a negative, but a huge positive. I would most likely not respond to her profile because of that line. Of course, this also takes into account the fact that there is a decent age gap between us, so I scrutinize her a bit harder than I would a younger woman. Which brings us to another issue that is always going to crop up in middle aged singles: She says she has wisdom with her age.

She also has her own unique set of neuroses that must be met and dealt with. With age comes experience and the potential for negative baggage.

This is the reality on the ground. What separates baggage from experience is that baggage keeps us wallowing in the past and experience gives us lessons for the future. She seems to be on the right path. I would be intrigued enough to send a message and pitch a meet up. I guess its living in this culture that makes it sounds a little cheesy to hear a woman dating list off everything she has to offer… but it makes sense, and I love that it worked so well for her even after 1 day..

Make your own profile sexy and attractive, cocky or witty, and send only a short message like PM says. This data is merely anecdotal evidence. It would be interesting to experiment using the same womans photos and a bland profile what the response rate would be.

There are quite a few profiles where all you have to go on is the photo as most sections are wither blank or contain nothing about the person.

Now, if there are little nit-picking things in a sentence or two that bug you, try just asking about those. Someone with this kind of flexibility is likely to accommodate. Would be a fun lady to meet for sure. Some girls are really down to earth. When I was a young lad I studied yacht design and boat building.

Francis Herreshoff from the depression era. He also describes how to pick a suitable first mate and described that the pretty and gasketed-up show-boat of a woman in high heels would be hard to please and hard to live with.

My eldest son is, coincidentally, a ship architect. I take interest in what interests the people I love so if we ever find ourselves on a date, that yacht design could make for the kind of unexpected conversation that makes a good date a great memory. Thanks for sharing that ibit in your comment. Gave me a nice feeling. I just wanted to ask someone about leagues, and how you know what your league is, as a woman. You are commenting using your WordPress. You are commenting using your Twitter account.

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