We first started to converse one day in the cafeteria lunch line — Bible college students from the same hometown. Now the serious vetting could begin. For me, the question loomed — Is she the one? My criterion was a woman with a heart for God who was willing to follow me anywhere. At that time I was planning to return to the mission field in Asia where I had just served for two years. This was a portal through which a potential wife in my world, must pass.
My criterion was a woman with a heart for God who was willing to follow me anywhere.
At that time I was planning to return to the mission field in Asia where I had just served for two years. This was a portal through which a potential wife in my world, must pass.
While for me this was a very narrow and specific criterion, a wider principle can be stated thusly:. Is the person you are considering as a lifelong partner, a person of vision, and is that vision compatible with yours?10 Good Signs You Are Dating The Right Person
Beyond a specific ministry assignment, we are all called to the vision of becoming Christ-like: Does she display the self-discipline necessary to turn from lesser pleasures and follow the supreme path of allegiance to Christ?
Now is the time to evaluate before you choose; once married, you forfeit that luxury.
I once heard this illustration: Feeling trapped — not wanting to hurt each other by even suggesting that marriage may not be for us. Addictions — do either of you struggle with alcohol, drugs, or porn?
Can you imagine your future with your boyfriend without crying or laughing?
Signs you are dating wrong guy
If the thought of a lifelong commitment makes you want to cry, why are you dating him? He might be a good guy who wants to have a serious relationship. If spending time with him exhausts you and you feel depressed and stuck each time you are with him, this is a warning sign you are dating the wrong guy.
You should feel alive and happy with your boyfriend, not sad. Is your relationship his only interest? If your boyfriend has no interests or hobbies outside of your relationship, perhaps you are dating Mr.
If each difficult conversation, for instance, about religion, politics, or how many children you want, makes him angry and it leads to a serious fight, you are definitely dating the wrong man.
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